Youth League Sports - What it is all about!

I know that many parents have children who are participating in Youth League sports.  I am very disappointed in Youth League Sports programs and for good reason.

            I have a grandson playing Youth League Football.  Let me re-phrase that – I have a grandson who goes to practice on a Youth League Football team.  I had a son who also was a part of a Youth League Football team years ago and am disappointed to see that it has not changed. 

            We were all happy that he wanted to play football on the Youth League, thinking this would be very good for a child with some issues and a very low self-esteem.  We mistakenly thought that this would help his self-confidence and self-esteem issues.  Isn’t this what Youth League Sports is all about?  Helping children?  Teaching them discipline and team work?  If this is your impression of Youth League Sports, let me tell you now – YOU ARE DEAD WRONG.

            How many of you were under the impression that Youth League Sports was all about the children involved?  I am betting that a high number of you thought that.  Well, again, YOU ARE DEAD WRONG. 

            Now, I will give you this much – Youth League Sports SHOULD be about the children – teaching them teamwork, self discipline, self confidence and self esteem.  This is why Youth League Sports was formed.  Children need activities that teach these things and they need them early in life.  It would be great if these activities, while teaching these things, could also be fun.  If Youth League Sports were properly managed, they could accomplish this.

            Now, I realize that not every child is athletically gifted – some are just downright not very good at sports.  And, that is okay.  Some are gifted and are very good at the sport in which they are involved and that is great.  However, during practice they are all on the fields working.  Good or bad.  However, come game day, only the “good” ones get to actually play in the game.  I have witnessed this first hand.  I witnessed it years ago and am witnessing it now.  On the particular Youth League Football team that I am following, there are a handful – maybe 6 or 7 boys – who simply are not great athletes.  But they show up at practice every afternoon and then stand on the sideline every game.  There are games when they never step foot on the field. 

            Each Saturday that these young men stand on the sideline and do not get to participate, they leave the ballgame with a little less self confidence and a little less self esteem than they had when they got there.  Their having to stand on the sideline says one thing to them … “You are not good enough.”

            Now, I don’t know about you, but in my opinion, this is something that should never happen to any child.  No child should have to walk off the field and say to his family that is waiting, “I didn’t get to play.” 

            Why is this happening?  One simple reason – WINNING.  The Youth League Sports programs are not about the kids – they are not about helping kids – they are all about winning.  The children on the team are not what are important – it is the scoreboard.  So, the self confidence and self esteem of our children are being sacrificed for the sake of WINNING.  It is great for a team to win a game, but not at this expense.  Those players who are not great could be rotated in and out of the game one at a time.  I would never propose putting them all in at one time.  But, they should be given a chance!  Who knows – with a little “game practice”, an infusion of self confidence and self esteem – they might actually get better.  But whether they do or not is not the issue.

            This, my friends, should NEVER happen.  Have any of you witnessed similar experiences?  I would love to hear from you.  Something needs to happen to change this.  Children growing up in this day and age need good values and good values begin with feeling good about yourself.

            Does anyone agree?  Let me hear from you.

The Government HAS NOT Shut Down

The "government shut-down" has been all the rage in the news for the past week or so, with strong talks of checks not being disbursed for the last few days.

However, I would maintain that the U.S. Government HAS NOT shut down.  I have heard this opinion from a couple of other sources in the last few days and I completely concur.  True, Republicans and Democrats are not able to reach an agreement regarding raising the debt ceiling.   An, of course, at the center of the debate is the cost of Obama Care.  However, while they claim the government is shut down, due to a lack of reaching an agreement on this, there are a couple of things to consider.

Let's look at this realistically:

1.  Is anyone in Congress - the House of Representatives or Senate - going without a paycheck?
2. Is the President going without a paycheck?
3.  Is anyone in Congress - the House of Representatives or Senate - going to lose their health insurance            because they no longer have a job to go to?
4.  Have the Secret Service Agents that guard the President and his family been sent home?

Unless the answer to these questions is "Yes", then the government HAS NOT shut down.  The only thing that their threatened actions are doing is hurting the citizens of this country.  They are threatening that there will be no Social Security Disability checks.  Is that punishing themselves in any way - does that affect them in any way - NO.  They are threatening that there will be no VA Pension/Disability checks.  Does anyone else find that deplorable?  They are threatening to cut off the income of the very people who laid their lives on the line, and in some cases gave their lives, for this country.  But yet, they all still draw their paychecks?
What is wrong with this picture?

As for the debt ceiling, I propose that every member of the House of Representatives, every member of the Senate, and the President all reduce their salaries to an amount that is comparable with the salary of the average U.S. citizen.  This alone, would go a long way towards reducing the debt.  I also propose that, regardless of what office you held (and YES, I do include the Presidency in this), that when you leave office - you no longer get paid.  I do not know of a company on earth where I can go and work for 4 years, quit and receive my salary for the rest of my life.  More progress toward debt reduction.

As for Obama Care, I propose that every member of the House of Representatives, every member of the Senate and the President himself, be mandated to have Obama Care as their insurance.  If you want to "force" a plan on the citizens - be ready to swallow your own medicine.

I think it is a crying shame that we have a government that is going to punish the citizens because they can't reach an agreement.  This is worse than a couple of two year old children having a temper tantrum, breaking the living room lamp, and blaming the dog.

What do you guys think?